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(Special Note: To register and use our 5,000 member bulletin board to ensure your security, please call EICI, Inc. 925 934 5972.) CLARITY 2008 Our annual weekend workshop for women! Please go to Clarity for details! Verbal Abuse is a lie told to you. To read a powerful article about its lasting impact on a child.see "The Lies That Bind" Controlling People: Controllers use verbal abuse to subtly undermine their victim's perceptions, to manipulate them into doing what they want, to foster dependency, to isolate them from truth, from outside contact and even from their own children. They may withhold information while lying to their victim.. Controllers create confusion, emotional pain and mental anguish, while periodically "rescuing" their victim by seeming to offer the balm of love that alleviates the victim's pain drawing the victim ever closer. Controllers gain and maintain power over people while often presenting a perfect persona to the world. NEWER RELEASE "THE VERBALLY ABUSIVE MAN, Can He Change?" To Get it Go to Books! An interview with Patricia Evans Jan. 3, 07 by Kerby Anderson and Carmen Pate on Radio Show: Point of View—(a nationally syndicated talk show on over 225 stations across America) is now available on CD. To purchase a copy please call the Point of View order desk at 1 800 347 5151. Just one consultation can make a real difference in your life! Please call 925-934-5972 for information on confidential, personal phone consultations with Patricia Evans, or go to Consultations for more information. To sign up to receive announcements from Patricia Evans click here. On Oprah's web site: Browse these articles for interviews with Patricia Evans: 7 Signs You're in a Verbally Abusive Relationship Advice from Patricia Evans ... Verbal Abuse: How To Save Yourself Advice for what to do if you are being verbally abused. ... Now on this site: A special report, "Verbal Abuse" from FOX News in Los Angeles. To view, click here for the FOX film. Custody Issues? There is a forum on our bulletin board for discussion and here are some links to take you sites with many links. The protective parent, woman or man, will benefit from the information on these sites. Illinois Coalition for Family Court Reform Esther's Case, scroll down to see it. About my books, by Patricia Evans: Each of my books covers different information. The first, The Verbally Abusive Relationship, shows that verbal abuse is a lot more than name-calling and that there are a dozen main categories of verbal abuse, from the silent treatment and discounting, to threatening and name-calling. The second book, Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out, explains other forms of control, coping, and has a largesection on recovery. The third, Controlling People, clearly lays out what goes on in the mind of the person who uses verbal abuse to control someone, or some group. There is nothing else like it. -Dr. David L. Quinby Professor, Emeritus, Dept. of Psychology, Youngstown State University says, "Human kind urgently needs this, both on an individual and a collective level.Nothing else seems to be working very effectively." The forth book, Teen Torment, shows when the patterns of verbal abuse crystallized in the minds of controllers so they neither hear nor see their partners. It also shows ways to overcome verbal abuse at home and at school, how to talk to your children and how to reach out to young people. It is still available on Amazon, but will later be replaced with a new book on verbal abuse and your child. The fifth book, "The VerballyAbusive Man-Can He Change?" shows the reader exactly what to do to wake up a person who indulges in verbal abuse, but thinks that either they don't indulge in verbal abuse or think that they are provoked to be abusive when no one has abused them. Some people respond to verbal abuse, such as:"You're too sensitive, with a comment like "You're being a jerk." They don't know how to respond in a non abusive way. This book help to sort it all out and is ideal for partners of people who indulge in verbal abuse, and likewise is ideal for people who want to stop being verbally abusive. Some Past Presentations by Patricia Evans Clarity 2007: An annual weekend workshop for women from all over the world, held in California. Sponsored by: EICI, Inc. Workshop and Training for Therapists Australia: Sydney, Melbourne, Adelaide, Wagga, Brisbane Novemeber 2004 Sponsor: Written Word NOTE: 360 professionals attended and 99% said, "Yes," we would recommend this training to our colleagues! Workshops
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| This site is dedicated to the recognition and prevention of verbal abuse in homes, schools and workplaces. Verbal abuse includes withholding, bullying, defaming, defining, trivializing, harassing, interrogating, accusing, blaming, blocking, countering, diverting, lying, berating, taunting, putting down, edifying, discounting, threatening, name-calling, yelling and raging. | The Verbal Abuse web site ushers in a new millennium of increased awareness. It reflects our growing knowledge of verbal abuse--one of the worst forms of abuse anyone can experience in any ongoing relationship or association. It serves as a link to resources and information about verbal abuse. The site will grow and change as we gather information. Indeed, it was only as recently as 1992 that verbally abusive relationships were named and described. | We invite you to contribute to our collective knowledge and resources. If you have a resource that you think should be included on the Verbal Abuse site, please let us know. | For quick navigation, please see our site map. Or explore the site by clicking on items of interest in the navigation bar above. Some will give you drop-down menus with new choices. |
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