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CLARITY 2009

Our 15th Annual Spring weekend

Begins at 4:00 pm Friday May 22, 09

Ends at 4:00 pm Sunday May 24, 09

Location: Alamo, CA

About 1/2 hr from Oakland Airport


A Workshop and Retreat for Women

A healing and transformative time!

We reserve the entire facility where the retreat is held so it is very private and attractive. The food is delicious. The staff does everything it can to accommodate us.

QUESTIONS?
If you have questions please don’t hesitate to call the office at
925.934.5972 or e-mail Patricia at: Evansbooks@aol.com

Women come to...
Heal, Make new friends, help others.
Enjoy fabulous meals and a spiritual atmosphere.
Gain support, validation, clarity, and personal power

WHO COMES?

Women who have heard verbal abuse or who work with those who are recovering from its affects, or who are interested in knowing more about it, are invited. Typical attendees are very conscious and empathetic. They are homemakers, moms, lawyers, schoolteachers, therapists, secretaries, entrepreneurs, dancers, artists, and so on. They come to learn more, to recover from or manage difficult relationships and/or to support others. They come from the US, Canada, and at our last weekend we even had an attendee from Australia.!


Last year’s "Clarity" attendees said:
"Wonderful" "Excellent—Much needed for the world—this is truly setting the captives free." "Awesome!" "Invaluable" "Very well planned" "I loved it" "Groundbreaking" "It offered validation that shifted my world."

Other year’s "Clarity" attendees said:
"The workshop was so poignant and I felt the warmth and comfort and sharing of those just like me. I was so sad when I came and now I'm uplifted and comforted. There were so many wonderful women there and I feel strong and not so alone."

"The retreat went quickly, but pressed into my consciousness the enlightenment, options, resolutions, reaffirmations of strength in number, peope with the SAME story converging to heal and support one another." "Like being on a new planet!" "The single most helpful thing I have ever done for myself in my life!" "An experience of a lifetime-will benefit my life forever A literal Godsend!"

"I'm thankful for all the suggestions and support from everyone I met!" "I highly recommend this to everyone! " "I will be high for days! " "Best antidepressant around!" "Serene!" "Safe!" "Great organization!" "Very, very informative, and insightful!" "It would be difficult to improve on it!" "Wonderful, warm, brilliant, supportive" "Loved it!" "Fantastic!" "Very beneficial" "Very thorough, enlightening, comfortable!"

The resident workshop fee is $495 per person and it includes all meals and accommodations at the Center, from dinner Friday through lunch Sunday. Rooms are nice dorm style with 3 or more beds per room. (We are involved all day so no one is usually in their room until after 9 or 10 p.m.)

The commuter workshop fee is $395 per person and it includes all meals from dinner Friday through lunch Sunday. (Commuters are all those who are not staying at the Center, but are living nearby or staying in a hotel or with friends.)

TO REGISTER call the office at 925-934-5972.  We take Master Card or Visa. If we are unavailable when you call, please leave your name and number. We will call back asap!


QUESTIONS?
If you have questions please don’t don't hesitate to call the office at 925 934 5972 or e-mail Patricia

EVANSbooks@aol.com


POSSIBILITIES IN YOUR AREA...
In 1992, I introduced the term "Verbally Abusive Relationship" to the culture. Many thousands of people throughout the world responded, grateful to have a name for their experience. Thanks to them and their contributions, we have much more knowledge available.
 
If you or your organization would like to sponsor a workshop on verbal abuse issues, please review the following information and contact us for details.
 
To bring healing both individually and collectively, it is my intention that workshop participants gain clarity and insight into verbally abusive relationships. I invite participants to join me in exploring the context, content and underlying dynamics of verbal abuse. I believe that a profound understanding of this issue is essential to our own well-being and the well-being of all those who seek healing and mutuality on planet earth.
 
I have given workshops sponsored by organizations and community leaders throughout the US and in Canada and Australia. Workshop participants include interested members of the community, people who have experienced verbal abuse, people who have perpetrated verbal abuse, counselors, therapists, law enforcement personal and community health professionals.
 
Generally workshops cover the following topics. However, any workshop can be tailored to your particular audience. Our Clarity Weekend Workshop covers much more.

    • What Constitutes Verbal Abuse
    • The Two Realties of the Abuser and Abused
    • The Categories of Verbal Abuse
    • The Impact and Consequences of Verbal Abuse
    • The Crazy-Making Aspects of Verbal Abuse
    • How Verbal Abuse is used to Control the Partner
    • The Physical Effects Of Verbal Abuse
    • What is Wrong with The Abuser
    • Why the Abuser Thinks it is The Partner's Fault
    • Personal Freedom and Self Definition
    • Responding To Verbal Abuse
    • How To Set Boundaries
    • Validation and Self-Esteem
    • Counseling
    • Questions About Verbal Abuse
    • How You Can Bring Awareness
    • Controlling Behaviors
    • How to Teach Children about Verbal Abuse
    • What Constitutes Good Therapy for the Victim and for the Perpetrator



    PUBLIC SPEAKING & PROFESSIONAL

    PRESENTATIONS &WORKSHOPS  

    PARTIAL LIST:                                                                 

    National Fed. of Business and Professional Women's Clubs, Benicia, CA   

    Livermore Business and Professional Women, Livermore, CA  

    Adult Violence Forum, St. Mark's Lutheran Church, Pleasant Hill, CA  

    State Conference Council on Battered Women, Atlanta, GA

    California Writers Club, Pleasant Hill, CA  

    Twelve Presnetations at International Womens Annual Weekend Workshop, San Rafael, CA

    LafayetteOrinda Presbyterian Church, Lafayette, CA

    Jewish Community Center, San Francisco, CA  

    Annual Women's Gathering, Fresno, CA

    Beverly Hills High School, Beverly Hills, CA

    Conference on Domestic Violence: Sponsor: BPW, Berkeley, CA

    Jewish Community Center, San Francisco, CA  

    Beverly Hills High School, Assembly, Beverly Hills, CA

    International Assoc. of Counselors & Therapists, Newark, NJ

    Second Annual CA Narrative Therapists Participants' Conference, San Diego, CA  

    Statewide Conference on Domestic Violence Sanduskey, Ohio

    Telluride Community , Telluride, CO  

    Coalition Against Dom. violence, Ok. City, OK

    Men's Resource Center & Women's Agenda, Portland, OR

    S. Oregon State College & Phoenix Police Dept. Ashland, OR

    California Writers Club, Los Angeles, CA

    Univ. Church of Rel. Science, Tacoma, WA

    Commonwealth Club, San Francisco, CA

    St. Mary's University.: Sponsor: Graduate Psych. Dept. San Antonio, TX

    School District of Palm Beach: Florida

    Employees of Fayette County Drug & Alcohol Commission, Inc., PA  

    Calgary City Teachers Convention. Calgary, Canada  

    Kenora Sexual Assult Centre. Kenora, Ontario, Canada

    East Coast Seminars. Stamford, CT

    AMEND. Denver, CO  

    Northern Sussex District Medical Society, MA  

    Family Services Thunder Bay Canada.    

    Sponsor: EICI. San Rafael, CA -

    Speech: The Gaia Cultural Arts Center Berkeley, CA  

    The Learning Annex San Francisco, CA

    Wellspring Resource, Danville, CA

    Wiregrass Mental Health Board, Dotham, Alabama

    ARMS: Portland, OR

    Northwest Family Life, Seattle, WA

    San Ramon Valley Methodist Church, Danville, CA

    Jacksonville State University, Alabama -

    Conferenc: Governor, Atty. General & Supreme Court of Oklahoma,Ok.City

    EVDVSAT , domestic violence task force, Evansville, Indianna,

    University of Toledo, T. Ohio

    Community Presbyterian Church, Danville

    Internat. Assoc. of Administrative Professionals (IAAP) Washington,DC

    Comisión para la Investigación de Malos Tratos a Mujeres, Madrid, Spain .

    Sydney, AU,   —Therapist Training

    Adelaide, AU    —Therapist Training

    Melbourne, AU   —Therapist Training

    Wagga, AU   —Therapist Training

    Brisbane, AU   —Therapist Training

    Sydney AU   —Therapist Training


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    Biographical Summary
     
    Patricia Evans is an internationally recognized Interpersonal Communications Specialist. Drawing upon research of more than thirty thousand cases of verbally abusive relationships, she speaks and conducts workshops throughout the country. Founder of the Evans Interpersonal Communications Institute, now, EICI, Inc., where she offers workshops and training programs, Patricia Evans has single-handedly brought the subject of verbal abuse to the forefront of American consciousness.
     
    Newsweek commended her first powerful book on the subject, The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond (1992). Expanded edition (1996), as "A groundbreaking new book." It is available throughout the US, Canada, England, Mexico, Germany, France and in the Chinese Language. Published by Adams Media Corporation.
     
    Evans has spoken on the devastating effect of this secret form of control on more than two hundred radio programs, and seventeen national television shows, including the Oprah Winfrey Show, Sonya Live—CNN and News Talk.
     
    She is acclaimed as a public speaker, Riveting—Keay Davidson, San Francisco Examiner;
    Enlightening—Dr. Richard Jamison, Director, Productivity Enhancement, NJ
    Excellent—Antoinette Michaels, Hope Counseling, NY
    Powerful and Life-changing—Don Adams, President,Psychological Resource Center, Cary, NC.
     
    Her second book, Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out: On Relationship and Recovery (1993), explores the subject of verbal abuse in depth and is destined to be given a permanent place in schools, in the libraries of all healthprofessionals, and in the heart and mind of every reader.Both books were presented to the academic community at the 80th Annual Meeting of the Interpersonal Speech Communication Association, November 1994, New Orleans.
     
    In a joint project with the Safe Schools Center, Palm Beach, FL. Evans has designed workshops for teachers and students to create a climate free of hostility and harassment.
     
    Patricia Evans lives in northern California and is an interpersonal communications specialist, consultant and speaker. She is dedicated to bringing clarity to interpersonal communications.
     

    EICI, Inc.Evans Interpersonal Communications Institute
    PO. Box 589 • Alamo, CA 94595
    Phone 925 934 5972 • Fax 925 933 9636
    e-mail: Evansbooks@aol.com
     
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